It's difficult to decide whether to travel to anti-gay places - but boycotts don't really help. Travels of Adamwrote a superb blog on the subject and quoted me. Just remember: change comes slowly. Travel is a way to build connections and change minds, not make a bold statement. But first consider your and others safety.
If you're not already Burning it up in Black Rock, you're sure to feel the heat in New Orleans for Decadence. Or perhaps you want to party and give back - support Austin's LGBTIQ community at Splash Days. It's also Pride in Calgary or go hibernate with the Bears on Ice in Reykjavik.